Marriage & Your Credit Score: Q & A

wedding credit cardIt’s that time of year again. Spring is here, so the annual rush to the altar can not be far behind.

But wait. Have you checked what this marriage will do to your credit score? As a couple you may want to purchase furniture, a car or even a house. For that, you will need good credit. How you handle your credit after marriage can have a big effect on your future plans.

Won’t our credit will automatically merge after marriage?

Most people think that credit is automatically joined as soon as you tie the knot. NOT TRUE. In fact, assuming both parties to the marriage already had credit scores, these will continue to exist separately UNLESS the couple applies for a car loan, say, jointly or a credit card jointly.

My spouse defaulted on a loan. Will my credit score be damaged?

Actually, whatever your spouse has on his or her credit will have no effect on you at all UNLESS you apply for credit jointly. This means if one spouse has good credit and the other bad, it is imperative to keep them separate. That way if the spouse with the good credit can qualify alone, then he or she can buy a car or a house for the couple using his or her good credit alone.

We both have good credit, so we can merge our credit., right?

This is true EXCEPT it is always a good idea for each spouse to keep some credit in his or her name alone. That way if something happens to the other spouse, a job loss, for instance, the entire credit of the couple will not be damaged.

My spouse works and I stay at home.  Shouldn’t my spouse have the credit?

Again, NO. Think about it. If your spouse dies or loses his job, then the entire credit of the family could be lost. Always keep at least some credit separate.

Merged Credit After Marriage v. Separate Credit

Merged Credit After Marriage

Think of it this way. Let’s say you and your spouse Bob decide to buy a car. You apply for the loan jointly and start enjoying the car and making the payments. Then, Bob loses his job and the bills pile up. You both realize you really cannot manage that car loan, so you let it go. The car loan goes into collection and eventually the car is repossessed. Now both your and Bob’s credit is ruined and your family has no more access to credit.

Separate Credit After Marriage

Here’s another scenario. Jack and Jill keep their credit separate. Jack buys a new car on his own and makes the payments until he loses his job. Then, the couple sits down and figures out that they can pay their bills for a few months of unemployment, but after that no. So, after a few months they stop paying on Jack’s new car and credit cards and pay only debt in Jill’s name. Jack’s credit is trashed, but Jill’s remains the same. That way at least the couple still has access to credit during their time of need. Of course, they could also decide to pay all the bills in Jack’s name instead of Jill’s name.

The important thing is to keep someone’s good credit. Do that by keeping some credit separate.

Should I Pay Off My Mortgage?

Recently, the New York Times ran an article discussing the relative merits of  paying down a mortgage. According to the article, one should think long and hard before adding even $25 a month to extra principal.

How have we arrived at such a state? How could paying down or paying off the mortgage ever be considered anything but good? Well, there are many reasons and all of them add up to one thing: our financial system rewards mortgage debt.

That sound crazy, doesn’t it? But, that’s the truth of the matter. Though the article does give admit that having no mortgage does have psychological benefits,  a sense of security, a feeling of real ownership, the author feels  the actual cash benefit seems paltry compared to the  the potential financial pitfalls.

Financial analysts consider  twofold main pitfalls in socking extra cash into the mortgage, one is lost profit on the stock market and the other is lost tax deduction. As for stock market “profits,” in my view, how can financial analysts still be flogging stocks and bonds after the recent Wall Street debacle when the federal government was called upon to prop up our largest corporations and financial institutions which were in danger of “melting down”?  This is not 1929 we’re talking about, but 2007  to 2009 when trillions were wiped out of 401 ks and IRAs. We are still dealing with the aftermath of pension fund investments gone south and even giant funds like California’s PERS have been accused of excessive expensing at the same time that its holdings plummeted.  In the meantime, the NY stock market has been on a wild ride ratcheting up and down with gay abandon in the intervening years.

Is the average person really supposed to consider the “opportunity cost” of lost stock market profit over the real and tangible comfort of paying off the mortgage on his or her own home ?

The next “pitfall” is losing the tax deduction. Let’s take the example of a 30-year fixed rate $400,000 mortgage at 4.25%. Pay an extra $200 per month and you pay it off in 25 years and save almost $60,000 in interest. If you are in the 28% tax bracket, losing the deduction means you really save $42,000 or 3.06%. Is that such a bad thing? At least paying off your mortgage is a sure thing whereas “betting” on the stock market hammers even the so-called experts.

Financial analysts worry that putting all that money into a home mortgage is really putting all your eggs in one basket.They all seem to think the stock market is better and trot out the old stats about how over time the market is really making money. Maybe so, but the average homeowner is really in no position to figure out how to fit himself or herself into those stats which have badly skinned many an amateur, not to mention the professionals.

The bottom line in my view is that of course it is better to pay down your mortgage. If you are heavily indebted to credit cards or any other high-interest payment, pay those down first. But, if you can manage a few extra bucks or even one extra payment a year–Just Do It!!

Money-Saving Tricks, Pt 2

As promised, here’s the next installment [and, most likely, the last] of how to save money in THESE TOUGH TIMES.


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Now, I’m looking for more tips on how to save money. If you’ve got one, share it with the rest of us.

Here’s one from me:

In the past few years, I’ve discovered that the vast array of household cleaning supplied that we all buy–one for the floor, one for the sink, one for the laundry, etc. is really just a marketing ploy to sell more “stuff” and make more money.

I’ve substituted VINEGAR for all of the above. I mix it with water and use to clean windows, to get rid of hard water buildup on faucets and shower doors, to wipe down the counters, to mop the floors. I also use one cup with every wash load to take the place of  bleach, borax, softeners or whatever else we’ve been bamboozled into “needing.” Vinegar also saves a lot of time outside. Pour it full force into the grass growing in the cracks of your sidewalk or driveway. Bam! Grass is gone. Its uses seem almost endless. Plus, the smell goes away immediately.

Short Sale Aftershocks: Cleaning Up the Credit

Experiencing a Short Sale or Foreclosure

Home owners have increasingly determined that staying in their homes may no longer be worth the enormous payments  because they owe far more than their homes are worth. In the past two years homes in Southern California have decreased from 20% to 80% of value depending on the locality. Though in some areas, prices seem to have stabilized, many homeowners have become disillusioned by the loan mods offered by their lenders.

What to do? For many, the option is a short sale, either standard or strategic. By taking this option, the homeowner and the bank agree to sell the home for less than is owed. Yes, the homeowner does lose the home, but is now out from under the immense burden of an underwater mortgage.

What is the downside? Besides losing the home, the downside is a strong ding to the homeowner’s credit from mortgage lates and the short sale itself.

Cleaning Up the Credit

Can anything be done to salvage the bad effects of a short sale? The answer is yes and yes. If the homeowner is still making payments while requesting a short sale from the bank, today it is possible for that homeowner to simultaneously purchase another property and close escrows at the same time! This is terrific news. Now, the homeowner can purchase a similar home for sometimes half the price!

What about the more common situation where the homeowner is not making the payments before a short sale? Good news there as well since sometimes that homeowner’s credit can be “cleaned” and the short sale or foreclosure eliminated. This is possible particularly for those who have maintained their other payments, but stopped making only their mortgage payments. Of course, sometimes it’s even possible to help those with stronger dings on their credit as well.

Cleaning up credit after a short sale or foreclosure is not an easy process, but it can be done. Typically, the client must wait for several months after the short sale or foreclosure has occurred and then start the procedure by requesting a copy of the damaged credit report from Notice also that if the client has been rejected for credit after a short sale or foreclosure and that is almost a foregone conclusion, he has the right to request a free credit report for up to 60 days after the credit has been refused.

In fact, what can one expect after a short sale or foreclosure? Credit card companies will most likely notice after a month or two and start sending out letters. If the credit card holder has a balance he is paying off, especially a high balance, the credit card company may lower the credit limit to the balance owed. Or, the credit card issuer may summarily close the account with an accompanying letter stating that due to accounts unpaid with other creditors the account is being closed. Again, the card holder has the right to a free credit report.

Now the  credit report, free or otherwise, in hand, the borrower knows the extent of the damage and can start the repair process.

Thinking of doing a short sale? Be sure to call me at 626-641-0346. Or, email me at I specialize in short sales.

Paperwork and the Short Sale

It’s pretty clear that banks are much better off financially with short sales as opposed to foreclosures. Then, why on earth are these crazy banks making them so complicated?

Typically, banks require reams of paperwork for homeowners who wish to do a short sale on their properties instead of heading directly into foreclosure. Primary among the tax returns, financial statements, bank statements, pay stubs, W2s,   and such is the hardship letter, delineating reasons why the homeowner can no longer make the payments and so is requesting that the mortgage holder accept less than what is owed on the property and call it good.

Some banks have already recognized the futility, stupidity, hypocrisy, call it what you will, of this method and are no longer requiring mountains of paperwork and are, in effect, streamlining the whole process. Wachovia, now defunct,  but operated by Wells Fargo Bank,  announced quite some time ago that it would no longer require any paperwork other than the listing from the homeowner  wishing to do a short sale  along with a  buyer’s offer.  Most marvelous of all, Wachovia actually makes a decision and accepts or rejects the offer within 5 business days or tries to. Contrast this with Bank of America’s [aka Countrywide] 3 to 4 months.

Wachovia’s way makes sense, doesn’t it? It recognized that homeowners who are underwater to the tune of 50% or hundreds of thousands of dollars are not going to make the payments whether they are able to or not. They would need to be financial morons to stay in that situation. So, why force  or punish the poor homeowner who is nevertheless giving up his home or his investment and require all this useless paperwork?

Let’s just face it. With about 24% of loans nationwide underwater, millions of homeowners, clogging up the system with all this useless and unnecessary pasperwork looks more like punishment for the homeowner than anything really needed to make the transaction happen. Listen up, big banks, let’s hear it for Wachovia!

Can’t Get a Loan? Here’s Some Help

These days getting a loan is much tougher than in the “good old days”  before September 2007. In fact, if you are self-employed, it’s very difficult. Or, if you are an investor, it’s next to impossible unless you have already made a bundle and can put 40% down on that bargain you spotted driving around your neighborhood or scrutinizing the repo lists.

From adversity comes opportunity as the saying goes. From the Great Crash of 2007 is springing an entire new industry–peer-to-peer lending where individuals can borrow at better rates and less paperwork from other individuals who are able to make much better-than normal rates on any spare cash they may have.

What do you do if you want to jump on a great deal but don’t have the cash readily available?  Enter peer-to-peer or personal lending. Essentially, this type of lending is for any money need, not just real estate.  It’s become popular partly because of that ubiquitous Internet which is putting people together in  hitherto unimaginable ways.

peer to peer

Let’s say your daughter wants to buy a condo, and you want to lend her the money, but want to make it business-like. Go to Virgin Money . Yes, this is the same Richard Branson company with the airline and the record stores. This company specializes in loans among family members or at least among people who already know each other, so-called social loans. That is, it facilitates the process and puts everything on a business-like footing by supplying loan documents, processing, and third-party collecting.  The company also does small business loans and this year added wholesale mortgage loans.  This way, you can set up the loan to your daughter as though you were a regular bank and expect repayment in the same way. Fees vary from $99 to $2000 depending on complexity.

Then, if you prefer to borrow from strangers or have no relatives with extra cash, you can always go to Prosper where you can get a loan based on your credit score for up to $25000 to pay for school, credit card debt or whatever else you may need the money for. Don’t worry about privacy. If you are a borrower, your identity is not revealed so no potential lender will  contact you personally or even know who you are. And, once lenders have committed, they are not allowed to back out, so borrowers have some security.

Another site worth considering is Lending Club. This peer-to-peer site purports to  offer investors higher returns and borrowers lower-cost loans through its online financial network eliminating the high cost of traditional banks.

Borrowers with good credit can get 3-year-term personal loans from $1,000 to $25,000 at fixed rates that are often significantly better than rates from conventional sources. Investors can an earn higher returns: the average net annualized return has been over 9.5% since 2007. Money invested goes to the Lending Club borrowers chosen by the individual investors who generally spread their investment across tens or hundreds of qualified borrowers.

These are just a few of the many sites which are doing these kinds of loans. To find more, check out this video

Mortgage Aid Event in L.A.

Subprime Crisis No Barrier to Affordable Housing
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Some 30% of all California mortgages appear to be underwater, so loan modification is a term many have come to know. We’ve also come to realize that the process is long, complicated, and in many cases, expensive. The end result is usually not as good as hoped, despite the apochrophal stories we’ve all heard about balance reductions and interest rates of 2%. If true–very rare…

But now–help is at hand–and it’s not going to cost a penny. A five day mortgage aid event, running September 24th through Monday September 28th, brings counselors from Boston-based Neighborhood Assistance Corp of America [NACA] comes to Los Angeles. The $1 million cost of the event is funded by federal grants.

Here, counselors will scan homeowners’ mortgage documentation and send the files to nearly 2,000 on-site servicers and lenders, including representatives from Wells Fargo, Chase and B of A, who will be there to negotiate more affordable loans.

If you are in trouble with our mortgage, what have you got to lose? No more run-around from bank servicers. They will be right there. The Save the Dream Tour, launched in Cleveland, will continue on to Chicago, St Louis as well as Phoenix, la Vegas and San Francisco.

You can register for an appointment as or toll-free at 888-499-6222.


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